I never considered myself a racist, How could I be a racist when I never though about race. I’m sure you don’t need to be told that I am white. There was only 1 black in my high school but I cheered the struggles of the black community and others to end the racism in the law 20 years ago. When a black community leader came to our church and stated that racism was still a problem in our community I was somewhat surprised. I decided to find out more and joined a study circle discussion group sponsored by Sustainable Racine like the ones that will soon be offered on a broader basis.
Thinking back I had not had a conversation with a black person since collage. We started off the workgroup by writing down our earliest encounter with race. We heard a story about a woman who as a young girl who was traveling in the south for the first time. She remembered being very disappointed when the “colored” water fountain just had plain ordinary clear water. Her parents explained the situation and she was even more disappointed. We heard a story of a mother seeing her son unable to break into the plumbing trade. Most of all people in the group talked to each other and saw the “Others” as people like themselves. It was disturbing when a person I had come to respect stated that race problems in Racine were not improving and in fact had worsened in recent years.
I thought about racial justice issues for the first time in 20 years. On reflection I think that it is human nature to prefer the familiar. Separation will inevitably lead to clannish and then racist feelings. If we make an assumption about which are the “Bad” neighborhoods by the color of the kids playing on the streets. Or find ourselves thinking about welfare mothers as other than ourselves. The natural passive racism of all humans may be at fault. We are all recovering racists and it takes a conscious effort to find opportunities to meet our neighbors.
We had a meeting to investigate bringing study groups to more people in the Racine/Kenosha area. I think that this is a very good idea. Some question the study group as “just talk’ this is true but it is structured in such a way that I think it is the best first step to making a big improvement in our communities. Study group participants comit to meet with the same small diverse group for 6 weeks. With only about a dozen in each group everyone gets a chance to express himself or herself, and get to know others from different background. The study groups are hard work as they are focused on the difficult questions that separate us. Plan talk and active listening are work.
If you think about it, ending racism and the perception of racism depends on changing peoples hearts. This was the effect of the small study group on me. I am still meeting with my group and we are working (we hope) to make things better. I recommend the study groups method.
Thinking back I had not had a conversation with a black person since collage. We started off the workgroup by writing down our earliest encounter with race. We heard a story about a woman who as a young girl who was traveling in the south for the first time. She remembered being very disappointed when the “colored” water fountain just had plain ordinary clear water. Her parents explained the situation and she was even more disappointed. We heard a story of a mother seeing her son unable to break into the plumbing trade. Most of all people in the group talked to each other and saw the “Others” as people like themselves. It was disturbing when a person I had come to respect stated that race problems in Racine were not improving and in fact had worsened in recent years.
I thought about racial justice issues for the first time in 20 years. On reflection I think that it is human nature to prefer the familiar. Separation will inevitably lead to clannish and then racist feelings. If we make an assumption about which are the “Bad” neighborhoods by the color of the kids playing on the streets. Or find ourselves thinking about welfare mothers as other than ourselves. The natural passive racism of all humans may be at fault. We are all recovering racists and it takes a conscious effort to find opportunities to meet our neighbors.
We had a meeting to investigate bringing study groups to more people in the Racine/Kenosha area. I think that this is a very good idea. Some question the study group as “just talk’ this is true but it is structured in such a way that I think it is the best first step to making a big improvement in our communities. Study group participants comit to meet with the same small diverse group for 6 weeks. With only about a dozen in each group everyone gets a chance to express himself or herself, and get to know others from different background. The study groups are hard work as they are focused on the difficult questions that separate us. Plan talk and active listening are work.
If you think about it, ending racism and the perception of racism depends on changing peoples hearts. This was the effect of the small study group on me. I am still meeting with my group and we are working (we hope) to make things better. I recommend the study groups method.
