Hi Hannah
You enjoy philosophy so I thought I would share some of my thoughts.
As humans we have doubts, insecurities, fears, rages. We are born unsatisfied, questioning, striving; looking for more. I believe that we are born this way because it is a survival trait. It is this feeling of being unfinished that pushes us to build, create, strive. It also causes us to suffer, even when we are warm and feed.
Traditional physiology suggests that if we are troubled that we look for the "causes" in our past. When these causes are understood and accepted then we are given a reason to believe that we can be at piece with ourselves.
It has always seemed to me that the explanation of “causes” whether they are a type of demon possession as Scientology suggests, a traditional Freudian explanation or prenatal trauma etc... , are less important to inner piece than the belief that there is an explanation.
I believe that these approaches are incorrect and many times counterproductive. First of all they start from the premises that I am wounded and there is some specific trauma to blame. Both of these assumptions are wrong. I am not wounded; I am, for the most part, as I was created, and blame has never been a very good tool for planning future actions.
The key in my opinion is to accept the human condition. We are born unsatisfied; but we can decide what to do about it. What is needed is a philosophy (personal set of rules) for living in the present.
This is where the teachings of Jesus (the man) are important to me.
- We are connected one to another. I can most effectively maximize my own happiness by working to enhance the happiness of those around me.
- Jesus also taught that you are Loved, you are valued, and you are forgiven.
- ( “Your OK I’am OK” I liked the book)
Treat yourself as you would hope to treat your child.
· Be supportive, nurturing, forgiving, loving, … to yourself. You are the only tool you have to make the world a better place.
· Take care of your tools and they will take care of you", as the saying goes.
Don't forsake caution but strive to banish fear.
- Be open to people and to what life has to offer. ( I liked your statement “I choose happiness”)
Love Dad